Reluctant Reader? Visit the Book Store!

Every parent knows the challenge when you want your child to be a reader and it's not in their nature to be one. There are way too many articles, stats and research to support the value of reading and being able to read well.

Each of my kids are so different and unique from each other in their preferences and their abilities. They can all read sufficiently but they don't all have a natural desire to read. One can barely sit through dinner!

I noticed a funny thing the other day though. My 16 had a bookstore gift card. That bookstore is attached to a coffee shop so I invited a mom friend and her kids to run this errand with us because she had time to kill while two of her kids were still in a class. We all headed over.

Students who are naturally avoidant and reluctant readers were suddenly mesmerized by all the books. They showed lots of interest in the variety of books available, asking to be bought this and that book. It was fascinating. They were excited. They touched the books, opened them up, laughed at the covers. Oh and all but one were teens!

Many students start off excited about the prospect of learning to read and being able to read a book of their own choosing. I believe part of the reading resistance begins when reading turns from something they choose to do for pleasure, into something they are forced to do. Along with being forced, their choice begins to be taken away as they are assigned reading material. Some of my strongest memories were of being in the school library and choosing books that I did not realize at the time, were above and beyond my grade and age range, but the librarian let me check out whatever I wanted without reservation. She may have been guiding and offering suggestions but it was ultimately my choice. I used to love to read and would devour books like candy.

When I got older that slowed down as my life became more social and sedentary free time became less and less. As an adult, reading took the characteristic of being a luxury that I did not have time for. I have intentionally worked on changing this the last few years--except while I was in school myself. Haha.

My hot tip for the day, to encourage reluctant readers--is to take a trip to your local book store. Reward your kids by actually buying them a book. Then introduce them to the public library. A place without limitations! A place where they can actually choose ANY book they want. Lead by example as well. If nothing else, slow down and take the time to read to your kids. You won't regret it. I know both you and your children will savor those memories someday.